In the past, you have probably heard the saying a time or
two: “ Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a
silver sixpence in her shoe.” The poetic
rhyme from the English and quoted in Victorian times seemed to catch on and is
still often repeated today. Each item is usually applied to the wedding outfit
rather than décor…something the bride would wear. The items serve as good luck
tokens to a bride on her wedding day making her attire personal and
sentimental.
The “Something Old” symbolizes the bride’s family. Perhaps a
strand of pearls or grandmothers broach fastened onto a hand held bouquet. It
does not have to be from a female side…maybe a button from one of the brides
fathers suits sewn into the hem of the gown.
Megan wears her mothers and grandmothers pearls |
A “Something New” symbolizes hope for an optimistic future
with the marriage. The gown, the veil or even the rings, may be the “New”. “Something
Borrowed” needs to come from a happily married woman thereby lending some of
her own marital happiness and the item must be returned! The item reminds a
bride that she can depend on that friend or family member. A “Something Blue”
represents a symbol of faithfulness, love, purity and loyalty. It can be the
bride’s garter or simply blue shoes underneath the gown. Christianity has long dressed
the Virgin Mary in blue, so purity was associated with the color as well.
A
sixpence was a coin used in the British Empire beginning in 1551. One sixpence
represented six pennies and was last used in 1967. People used to be very
superstitious in the middle ages and it was a good omen as a lucky charm.
During the early 1600’s it was traditional for the Lord of the Manor to give
his bride a piece of silver as a wedding gift. Worn in the left shoe, the
tradition of the sixpence as a symbol of good luck continues today. Some
families have passed down the same sixpence through the generations to continue
the hope for good luck to future brides. It's also nice to seek out a sixpence
minted in the year of your parents or grandparents wedding. If not a sixpence
then a coin with a meaningful date should do!
Carlea lost her mother at a very young age. Here she wears her mother's wedding dress as she holds a picture of her mother wearing it on her wedding day. |
Brides
have been honoring the tradition of wearing an old, a new, a borrowed and a
blue item during their wedding for centuries. The wearing of these items is
supposed to share good luck but most important they express admiration for a
few special people on a very special day.
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